Angel Tree

by adustyframe ~ February 24th, 2007

This is a repost of my Angel Tree post on Advent for Evangelicals. I know it’s “odd” to post it so far after Christmas. However, I just learned how to put You tube on here, and I didn’t want to lose the post.

Thanks for bearing with me.

1 in 40 American children has an incarcerated parent.

“When your parent is in prison, so are you. Your heart is locked behind a wall of loneliness. Your future is bound by shame. But Jesus came to set the captives free, and through Angel Tree your church can bring the love of Christ year-round to prisoners’ kids across America.

In Matthew 18:5 Jesus said, “Whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me.”

Through Angel Tree, you can welcome children into your heart as if you were welcoming Jesus Himself. Right now in your community there are some children who are among the most at-risk children in the nation. It is so easy to connect with them through Angel Tree.

Although, I knew about Angel Tree in the past I never participated. This year, is different. Angel Tree is bringing a gift to our home. My husband is in prison. My son is a “1 in 40”

I wrote about the night Angel Tree called us here.

I was very conflicted about being on the receiving end of this ministry. In my heart I felt as though it shouldn’t be us needing this. We should be the ones doing the giving.

As I look at my son this Christmas, I am overwhelmed with thankfulness for this ministry. I see the pain this separation causes all of us. My son misses his daddy so much. My husband misses our son. I struggle through days barely able to breathe with the enormity of the loss our family is experiencing.

Each time I view an Angel Tree video I sob. The pictures of precious little ones with huge smiles. The caregivers with thankfulness in their eyes. When you watch the video, you are seeing people just like my son and I. The pain is often too much to bear. The reaching outand love that Angel Tree offers is just as overwhelming.


Angel Tree gives an opportunity to connect. My husband had to request a gift before Angel Tree would contact us. I love that the gift comes from daddy. My son will be thrilled.

The purpose of Angel Tree is to minister to hurting families. They share the Gospel of Christ with the recipients. I contemplated the at risk children this week. The “1 in 40”. I truly believe that as hard and sad this continues to be for us, we are much better off than most families in our situation. We know the Lord. We have family support and church support. God is mending our hearts and home. Our marriage is being rebuilt. So many families with an incarcerated loved one, don’t have the things that God has blessed us with. I have said repeatedly that I don’t know how people do this without the Lord.

I thought this week of all these families. All these babies. Muddling through life. Hurting and aching. Drowning their pain in things we find distasteful. How wonderful it is that someone cares for them. Angel Tree reaches out. Hugs these babies. Prays with the caregivers. Shares with them the most wonderful news anyone can share. By giving a gift they say to people like us,“You are loved.” “You are not a leper.” “We care about your incarcerated loved one.”

For a few moments, someone knows about the shame that we try to hide. The elephant in the room we try to not talk about. They hand a gift, a message of good news and give encouragement to those who think they cannot make it one more day. What a small way to reach out to hurting people. For this year perhaps it’s too late to help. Please tuck Angel Tree away in your heart and remember them next year.

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11 Thoughts Shared to Angel Tree

  1. Ame

    i am so touched. i cannot imagine your pain. though in a different way, i understand what it means to be “the leper.” even in the most “godly” circles, i mention i’m divorced and it seems i’m bombarded with married people saying, “but . . . . .” i am SO tired of the “but’s.” it’s as though if they don’t have a “but” they are condoning divorce. ugh. i don’t even condone divorce; but i didn’t have a choice. and even if i did, it is what it is now. i wonder, why is it so hard for people to love other people right where they are? our pain is different, and i will not even attempt to say i understand your pain. but i imagine our pain overlaps some; and that’s where i find you 🙂

  2. jodi_a4givensinner


    *double sniff*

    (at least the crying is helping my sinus cold).

    *sniff, sniff*

  3. Ame

    THANK YOU for your comment; you make me “normal.” i start to wonder what’s wrong with me that i just cannot do all of this. you know, they say being a single mom is the most difficult job in the world, but then they don’t do anything to help us. i don’t get it. my pastor was thrilled that i had a “biblical divorce,” but he didn’t want to do anything to help me or even acknowledge me. it’s so much, and we have God … and each other. what do those do without God? i wonder … will everyone just collapse … how far can we push ourselves … i’m rambling … gotta fold *some* clothes 😉

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