Encouragement
by adustyframe ~ April 18th, 2008Last weekend, James was at Grandma’s house. Lee’s older brother was here from out of town so James went to breakfast with his Uncle and Grandma and Grandpa.
When I picked James up, my brother in law said, “You are doing an excellent job with that young man’s reading.”
WOW! That felt so good. Of course moms love to hear good stuff about their babies anytime, but parenting solo means that I really need to hear it sometimes.
Apparently, James and his uncle played Brain Quest. It was for 8th grade. James read the questions and his uncle answered them.James said, “Well he had to help me on a few words.” I’m so proud of James. He IS reading very well.
I’m also thankful that my brother in law told me that I was doing a good job. I needed to hear that.
I feel like I’m not at the top of my game. I wonder if I’m messing up important things. I wonder if I’d be a better mom if I wasn’t doing everything alone.
Do you know a single mom who could use a pat on the back? Take a minute to call her or speak to her next time you see her. You will more than likely make her day.
April 19th, 2008 at 6:15 am
If it makes you feel any better, I think that all parents feel like they’re aren’t doing all of the right things, like they’re messing up. At least all of the parents I know feel that way.
And I know some amazing moms, so you’re in good company.
Thanks;)
April 19th, 2008 at 6:49 am
What a blessing!!! I’ve heard James read and I know your doing a wonderful job with him. He’s one of the smartest little boys I know.
aww thanks:)!
April 19th, 2008 at 8:17 am
Oh Lizzie. I feel the same way … and like Chel said, I think most moms do. BUT I try to remember God knew exactly what He was doing when he gave me this job as a mother to children. He put me in the very place I’m in (taking into account all the dynamics of past and present) and He will equip me with everything I need. And what I lack, He will step in and provide. If I were able to do a perfect job, my pride would most certainly run away with me. My lack keeps me humble, to say the least. On the other hand, I also pray that I wouldn’t allow my lack to inspire feeling discouraged and defeated (I struggle with this) but would instead increase my confidence in God’s provision that covers my weakness. His strength is made perfect in our weakness.
Thank you. I’m glad I’m not alone in these thoughts.
April 21st, 2008 at 10:12 am
WAY cool. I cannot imagine teaching a little one to read by myself, not to mention all the other things you do and challenges you have to face daily. Good job, you brainiacs, you !!
Thanks;)