When I try to share my thoughts on my marriage, my husband, and our situation, sometimes I think some of my readers assume I am a little naive.

I know it could be easy to think that I’m hiding my head in the sand or that because I say I will respect my husband I never disagree with him or tell him what needs to be said.

Please don’t assume that.

I’ve been beyond frank with my husband. I’ve been honest with him about my hurts and doubts. I’ve told him what I expect from him.

I’ve been angry and even ranted at him on occassion.

I’ve also sought wise counsel every step of this journey. Decisions I’ve made have been with much prayer, tears, and input from wise people.

I don’t believe I’ve ever promoted the silent too sweet Christian wife stereotype here. I don’t think that respect or submission equals silence.

Many of these discussions are intensely private and could never in any way be shared on my blog. Just don’t assume they haven’t taken place just because I haven’t posted them.

You can pray for those who counsel me to continue to see our situation with God’s eyes. I have received much support and wisdom from them and I’m very grateful for their input in our lives.

Just know that I am honest and firm with my husband and know that I do have wise people counseling me constantly.

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